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Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Goodmarlian: 6:33pm On Feb 12

Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Mariangeles(f): 6:35pm On Feb 12

If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Namaster: 6:36pm On Feb 12

END it!

If a girl likes you, you will become her SAFE SPACE.
Anything bothers her, you will be the FIRST to know.

She used to call you every 2 hours 'cause the relationship was FRESH and the attraction was FIRE.

Now she ducks your calls for 2 full days because the relationship is STALE and the attraction has EXPIRED.

IGNORE the excuse.
BLOCK her everywhere.

And whatever you do, DON'T "talk it out" before you VANISH.

Make it ABRUPT.
DENY her closure.

Drives them CRAZY.

And for fucccck's sake, STOP engaging in LONG DISTANCE relationship!

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Goodmarlian: 6:38pm On Feb 12

Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Mariangeles(f): 6:40pm On Feb 12

Goodmarlian:
I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

Talk to her about that.

Manipulations can mess up your mind.
Don't get yourself entangled in it.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Exceed15: 6:55pm On Feb 12

Na their way . This is the trick, when they ghost u don't pursue, don't ask her why . She will come back.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Goodmarlian: 7:00pm On Feb 12

Exceed15:
Na their way . This is the trick, when they ghost u don't pursue, don't ask her why . She will come back.

My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Silentgroper(m): 7:18pm On Feb 12

Me and a girl that's sweet on each other are like that.. we're literally on and off ..

Since I called the last time and she told me she was busy, we haven't talked in four weeks nw .. lol

The good part is she usually the first to come around after the long silence ..

It happened during Christmas and new year until she texted a week after , we went on chatting and calling for like a week till the above happened..

Now if she dare text me before Valentine or on Valentine's Day looking for one shitty gift or the other, I ain't responding..

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Stephen0mozzy: 7:20pm On Feb 12

Goodmarlian:
My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

So una don normalize bad behavior?

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Rabiu4190: 7:26pm On Feb 12

There's a psychology behind ghosting.

More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by calabaman(m): 7:56pm On Feb 12

Silentgroper:
Me and a girl that's sweet on each other are like that.. we're literally on and off ..
Since I called the last time and she told me she was busy, we haven't talked in four weeks nw .. lol
The good part is she usually the first to come around after the long silence ..
It happened during Christmas and new year until she texted a week after , we went on chatting and calling for like a week till the above happened..
Now if she dare text me before Valentine or on Valentine's Day looking for one shitty gift or the other, I ain't responding..

Na man you be

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by ItisWell22(f): 8:42pm On Feb 12

🤐

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.
More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:
If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.
If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.
Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

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Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

Let’s await his TALES soon…

Stephen0mozzy:
So una don normalize bad behavior?

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by ValCon888: 9:36pm On Feb 12

Your girlfriend was in another man's house collecting kpa kpa kpa kpa.

Her pùnna was sweating under his holy rod for two days straight as he poured his thick akamu inside her oil rig without remorse.

She was indeed in a bad mood getting dìcked down by a bad niggèr.

The sweetest pùnna to knack is another man's girlfriend, it is like stealing meat from a pot at midnight when everyone is asleep.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by louken(m): 9:40pm On Feb 12

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.
More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:
If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.
If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.
Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

This is the perfect explanation of what happened.
Every man who has had experience with women knows this.

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Danzakidakura(m): 10:20pm On Feb 12

Somebody booked her for straight two days hook-up. Wize up

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by PP123(m): 10:29pm On Feb 12

No evidence or proof

Get out abeg

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight,didn't call,didn't pick my calls,didn't reply chats,I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while i stay in lagos,a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore,I have already moved on,only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days,I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls.this is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo,we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style,I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by AffiliateGuruNG(m): 10:43pm On Feb 12

Rabiu4190:
Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection..

Finally, someone was a brain....

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by bigdawg7: 2:11am

The best way to treat ghosts is to let them remain dead

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by texannaija: 6:56am

She was actually “cheating” if na you be the “main BF” ooo

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by dkidd: 7:05am

Goodmarlian:
My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

It's only normal with 304's cos it's how they make room to be with other dicks. They created an atmosphere of tension and friction then they use the opportunity to be with the other guy on those days U guys aren't talking and when they're done they get back to U after being used. Una dey try for accepting rubbish sha. You and Ur friends are even making excuses on her behalf 😂

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Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Lanmonfishery(m): 7:53am

This is a sign of disloyalty as stated by my elders above I will not tell u what to do but this is what I would do.
The motive might have been to establish a relationship that would blossom into something beautiful at the end but signs like these changes motive, I would just keep playing my card, do small follow up and wait till the day we meet in person then bleep the living hell out of her, from the moment she ghosted me, she became my sex object and that she will remain till I get tired of the punnani

I no go leave her, na my motive go just change!

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by NaijaCover(m): 9:53am

No Be Small Thing ooooo

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Bwilliam(m): 9:55am

Should we tell him? Lol.

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by bewisemasses: 9:56am

Be a man. Hustle hard if u r done with school. If not read hard. Women r a neccesary distraction. They r drainning emotionally, psychologically and intellectually.
Focus ur intellectual capacity of leaving a mark in ur generation.
Marriage will give u plenty of time and opportunity for woman love and drama. For now build ur life and a personal empire. great luck

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Blitzking: 9:57am

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.
I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.
I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.
I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

It doesn't make sense calling your girlfriend multiple times in a day what are you talking about..na why una relationships no dey reach 6months.
Can u call the same person 8 to 10 times in a day for 20yrs..not possible

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by seunlayi(m): 9:57am

She will unghost herself when she sees me proposing to another lady. No time for yeye

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Shegebanza: 9:57am

Should we?

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by NikoWinaman: 9:57am

Lol

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by nathaniel27(m): 9:57am

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.
I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.
Person wey go collect opueh
For 2 solid days
Them drill ur nanny 🤣🤣
I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.
I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by AbuTwins: 9:57am

cool

We no dey do girlfriend!

Na wife dey ghost us!

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by jaxxy(m): 9:58am

love, understanding and honesty.

Re: Has Your Girlfriend Ever Ghosted You For Days Before And Later Called? by Bahamas95(m): 9:58am

Ogun wan kìll her shebi?

No girl has tried that rubbish with me before, the only reason I won't bother about it is if she travelled to where there's no network.....If I call and she didn't pick or text me I block her line immediately. I don't tolerate nonsense from anybody.

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